Friday, 2/7/14

Mom's nurse just left.  They've increased her morphine and lorazipam as she became restless.  She's not talking clearly anymore but opens her eyes from time to time.  My nephew John should be landing in about twenty minutes and should be at the house forty-five minutes from then.  I believe mom is holding on for him to arrive.

Kerrie from Australia called yesterday and mom was able to speak to her briefly and she also spoke to my son Bobby.  Both phone calls brought her peace.  We've been truly blessed with all the care and concern received from everyone, via phone, e-mail and Facebook as well as those who have been able to visit.  We understand that many of you cannot visit, and please do not feel bad. If you want to call you can, (760) 305-8044.  I don't know if mom would be able to talk but she still hears and please know we feel your presence, thoughts and prayers.  I tell mom every time anyone sends her a message and she nods...so she does know you are with her.

Dad slept for quite awhile last night which was wonderful...I was able to grab a couple of hours after he got up.  We're playing really soft music in mom's room and the fireplace is on....the dogs are keeping watch over her with dad and I, Uncle Ray as well... and Mike sits with her when he comes home from work and before he leaves. She's never alone.

I apologize for my little breakdown yesterday, dad and I are exhausted and obviously under a great deal of stress.  We're in better shape today as we know mom is going to remain comfortable with the increased medication and that John will be here soon.